"he says, she says" vol. II

"he says, she says..." where we pick a topic then give you the perspective from both sides of the sex spectrum.

today's topic: women want it just as much as men do


he says:

this topic is one of the oldest in the world but for some reason it's still one of the most talked about. i think that the facts are often pretty easy to agree on but there are other little factors that cause the debate to go on forever. things like double standars...if a man sleeps around he's a pimp but if a woman does she's a hoe. if a man is up front then he's confident and knows what he wants but if a woman is the same way she's easy and a slut for not being private. a lot of our issues in society come from old traditional roles and the naturally sexist nature of most religions (that's another topic). most societal rules and religious systems are built around suppressing women and keeping them reserved in the background and not really seen or heard in many ways. shit...that's why so many women in church's are freaks and a pastor's daughter can probably show you the greatest night of your life. but again...that's all another discussion for another time.


the issue here actually comes from how we talk about sex in general (and yes the picture above is an actual poster from the 50s). when it comes to sex...a man is "getting some" whereas a woman is "giving it up." shit...why is it for them to give up and for us to be so happy to get? i know most men are just happy to hit anything that will let them so that plays a part but those of us that can be selective are. shit a woman is lucky to "get some" from me. we're both benefiting in this situation so i'll be damned if i should feel lucky. women want the D just as much as we want to give it to them. you don't think so? ask all these cougars running around here trying to game up and fuck these young dudes. women don't hit their peak later...they just learn later in life that it's better to be up front about what you want than play all the games younger women still play when it comes to getting their needs met. most younger women who try this are usually not smart enough to do the same without becoming hoes in the process.

then you have all these products to increase female libido like they have no sex drive. women have one but it just runs on different types of fuel than a man's. a man can see an attractive woman and not know anything about her OR know her and not like her but will still be able to have sex with her and separate his feelings from his needs. women typically put more emotion into who they sleep with because they do feel like they're giving it away. some women act like they don't but they end up emotionally confused and fucked up later in life trying to act like men. we're not built the same.

a woman has desires and physical needs and will sometimes give in to those just to get satisfied or release that tension but they typically don't. they think just as many nasty sexual thoughts as men but are taught to keep those within. a lot of women aren't open about what they want for fear of being judged. and when a woman does she's looked at differently and judged even by fellow women who WISH they had the confidence to be that open and up front about what they want without caring who they offend or what insecure men think of her.


so yes...at the end of the day women want it just as much as men do. but because of how we are raised, how we are built emotionally and society's little unspoken rules they have to carry themselves differently. it's ok for us to be sex fiends and promiscuous without being judged because the worst thing people will of us is that "oh they're just men...that's how they're supposed to be."

i definitely feel my women out there and sympathize for you. but i guess that's another reason it's great to be a guy. we get to act like animals sometimes and not be judged for it. although i try to carry myself as a gentleman and am never crude i still can appreciate the fact that we have the freedom to be our primal selves and still be accepted.


she says:

Yes it’s true that oftentimes, women want it just as bad – if not worse than men.

Studies have proved that the older we get, the more horny we are. Conversations with

older women have proved that the older we get, the less tolerant we are of your bullshit, and the

easier it is for us to ‘fuck and get up’ so to speak.

As the world turns – so does the things that us women are able to voice. We used to be required to

be reserved and if we were sexually expressive we were better known as whores.

Today we have the power to tell someone we want them sexually without worrying about the consequences.

If we ask for it, and it’s given correctly we may even act a damn fool. Look at Vivica Fox hopping over brick

walls, stalking people all because she got some good penis. Damn 50.

Look at what happened once Ray J and Kim Kardashian released that sex tape. He had women like Whitney

Houston calling for that ‘d’. And Tyra Banks throwing that old wolf pussy at him.

We no longer have to be reserved and wait for him to make the first pass, hoping that will lead to the last pass.

And we are much better at asking you to bang it out and then telling you to get the hell out. We no longer are

interested in the aftermath cuddling. And now that the roles have reversed you will find men wanting what we

used to want. Affection. When we act affectionless, men can’t comprehend it so in return they crave affection, and

also act affectionate in needs of it being reciprocated.

Nowadays good ‘d’ is like a winning lottery ticket – everyone wants it. And don’t let us find out YOU have it - ask Mariah Carey… we will hunt you dowwwwwn….

Next we’ll be making babies then dropping them off on baby daddies porch only to be summons with a child support order months later.

How times have changed.